Dating and why women play games
I’m super interesting (and awesome) as it is; having game-like mystery is unnecessary. While we’re still getting to know each other, it’s quite possible that it won’t work out, but there’s a better chance if we’re both communicating our wants and feelings.In the wise words of Mila Kunis, “I think playing coy is silly. If a man gets turned off, he’s the wrong man.” I’m not the type of gal who will withhold parts of myself to try to be more interesting to you. I don’t need to pretend to be anything more or less. If you aren’t looking for a relationship because you’re planning on moving out of the country next year, say that from the start.It’s okay if you’re uncertain, just be sure to communicate clearly with me.
In order for all of the growth and communication to happen, you need to know yourself.
However, if me waiting for you or wondering why the hell you canceled again becomes a habit, though, I’m out. I’m not expecting you to own a house and have a perfect career, but I want a partner who cares about their long-term life.
In whatever way it looks like for you, I expect you to be working towards your dreams and financially stable in doing so.
If you aren’t seeking a relationship, I’m not wasting my time. As I’ve grown older and more experienced, though, I’ve learned to cut through the BS.
Fine, got it — you think I’m a babe and a sweetheart, but what are your intentions?If we’re dating and it’s going well, I’m going to bring up the “what are we doing” talk.