The most common arguments you’ll hear from couples is where they’re deciding to eat. [Read: 18 relationship turns offs that can ruin your romance] It does not necessarily cause breakups, but it can annoy people and can even be the cause of fighting, or worse, the dreaded silent treatment.When this happens frequently, there is a chance that it can affect the whole dynamic of your relationship.Now I am sure that many women will ask questions like, “What if he truly loves me, or what sort of person would I be if I did not support him through his tough times?” I will answer this question simply by saying this. A man can at times keep a woman at arm’s length with vague responses, or infrequent communication or better yet lame excuses for his lack of attentiveness…………….”I have been really stressed out at work, I just need some space to get my thoughts together, I don’t know what I want but I know I care about you.” These are all customary responses that a man will give a woman to keep her at bay….balance if you will…….teetering at a point of uncertainty on the issue of whether or not the gentleman is truly committed to a woman. It leads to a woman continually hanging on to a situation that is not giving any sort of real fulfillment.
Women just need to know how to say that maybe all of your apprehension, anxiety, stress and conflicting feelings are not something that I should have to deal with.A woman should not mistake a man coming over for dinner and a nightcap 4 times a week as him being devoted.A woman should not misinterpret a gentleman’s backhanded compliments such as,” You are so special to me that I don’t want to lose you,” all the while never committing to you.No matter what decision they make, the choice is usually based on the perception of the person or people who are involved.
They can’t make a quick decision because they don’t want to be blamed for failing to make the right one.Is superman some sort of sneaky or insincere dog who strung along a devoted woman?